
一 | 不想旅行变“修行”?和父母沟通的这些雷区不要踩 出发前:差点吵起来 上个月,我趁着休假带爸妈去了一趟周边的小城,三天两夜。本来想让他们放松,结果出发前一天,我就踩了雷。 OKLAHOMA CITY -- An Oklahoma judge on Tuesday exonerated a man who spent 30 years in prison for a 1987 rape and burglary, after post-conviction DNA testing from a rape kit showed he did not commit the crime.Pontotoc County District Judge Steven Kessinger issued a final order that vacates Perry Lott's conviction and permanently dismisses the case. “I have never lost hope that this day would come,” Lott, 61, said in a statement. "I had faith that the truth would prevail, even after 35 long years.“I can finally shut this door and move on with my life.”Lott was released from prison in 2018 after the DNA results first came to light, but only after agreeing to a deal with former District Attorney Paul Smith to modify his sentence. The agreement allowed Lott to leave prison and remain free while his motion to vacate was litigated. At the time, Smith said the DNA evidence did not exclude Lott as a suspect.But earlier this year, the Innocence Project, which helped to free Lott, approached newly elected District Attorney Erik Johnson, who reviewed the case and agreed the conviction should be vacated.“Five years ago, all evidence pointed to his innocence, but he was denied justice,” Innocence Project Senior Staff Attorney Adnan Sultan said in a statement. "We are grateful to District Attorney Erik Johnson for his commitment to righting this wrong.”Oklahoma state law requires a conviction to be vacated in order for a wrongfully convicted person to be able to seek up to $175,000 in compensation from the state.Lott's case occurred around the same time and in the same county as the convictions of Tommy Ward and Karl Fontenot, whose cases have come under intense scrutiny and have been the subject of numerous books, including John Grisham's “The Innocent Man,” which he produced into a six-part documentary on Netflix. A federal judge ordered Fontenot released, but Ward remains in prison.The books and documentary also feature the high-profile exoneration of Ron Williamson and Dennis Fritz, who both were convicted in the same county for the 1982 killing of Ada waitress Debra Sue Carter. That case featured the same cast of investigators and prosecutors, along with the same jailhouse informant who testified against Ward and Fontenot. Williamson at one point came within days of being executed. Both were later freed.。 我问老妈:“你想去哪儿?”她说:“随便。”我又问:“那我来安排?”她笑着答:“你们这样乱花钱不行的。” 我知道她是怕我花钱,但当时差点接一句“那到底去不去”。

二 | 后来学乖了,直接告诉她酒店已经订好,不能退。 带父母出门,怕的就是让他们做选择题。他们不是没想法,是怕给你添麻烦。

三 | 头一天:慢一点,再慢一点 头一天到了景区,我习惯性地想多走几个点。老爸腿脚不好,走了一会儿就找地方坐着。当地接待的朋友从包里掏出折叠凳给他坐,我才意识到自己安排得太密了。 中午吃饭,老妈随口说了一句“这虾酱真香”。没想到下午就有人塞了两罐真空包装的过来,说是当地特产,让带回去吃。老妈一边收一边说:“这多不好意思。”对方说:“阿姨喜欢,带回去吃。

四 | ” 晚上回车上,我发现座位旁边放着保温壶,每天灌满热水。这种小细节,我没想到,但有人替我想到了。 第二天:他们有自己的节奏 第二天在景区,有个池塘,里面很多锦鲤。

五 | 老妈蹲在旁边喂鱼,喂了整整半小时。

六 | 我催她:“前面还有塔呢。

七 | ”她说:“不急,慢慢来。”我忽然觉得自己像个导游,老想着打卡。其实出来玩,又不是赶集。

八 | 后来上了塔顶,老爸掏出手机,拍了十几张照片。不是拍风景,是拍塔上的瓦片和屋檐。他说:“这里像小时候的村子。”我从来没听他讲过小时候的事。 第三天:别总问“累不累” 第三天上午,我习惯性问:“你们累不累?”老爸说:“累啥,比在家走得多。”老妈接了句:“这一趟不错,下次还出来。”我听了挺高兴。 结果我又犯了错——我说:“那我回去做个攻略。

九 | ”老妈摆摆手:“不用你做,我们自己也能走。” 我这才明白,他们不是需要我安排一切,只是需要有人陪,但不需要被当成小孩管。 回来以后 回家后,老爸把塔顶的照片翻来覆去看,还给亲戚挨个看。老妈把那两罐虾酱放在冰箱里,说等过节再开。我偷偷把行程里那些“必去”的景点删了,想着下次再带他们出去,就找一个地方住下,每天散散步,喂喂鱼,聊聊天。 不想旅行变“修行”,其实很简单:少一点“我为了你好”,多一点“你说了算”。 我给自己列了几条,留着下次出门前看: 别问“你想去哪儿”,直接给两个选项。 别催,他们有自己的节奏。 别把行程排满,留一个下午发呆。

十 | 别问“累不累”,问“这地方好看吗”。 不知道下次能不能做到,先写上再说。 返回,查看更多。
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